Hmm. I define dating as sitting down with a friend to lunch or whatever. Hanging out with a friend. I am not girlfriend material. I don't believe in the whole process of being together for a little while then having a big or small break up. (Boring! #drag) I'd rather just have clean fun. None of the extra. Example: One of your friends wants to go out to dinner. You go. You laugh. You go home. Period. I don't have to tell you that platonic friends is a real thing. When I am ready to be in a relationship there is something called courtship. The courter will be my husband and that's it. Is that weird? As a 22 year old woman I have a hard time making time for people. I feel bad when I forget about plans I made or having to cancel something I thought I would be able to do. I'm trying to build my future. Time is limited yet it takes forever . School + homework + work + Volunteer work + finding time to rest + Church stuff = Booked. I have been working on making time for friends and family and getting better at it Someone once told me making time for others, going to school, working a full time job, and finding time to sleep is impossible. :) I am finding that to be very true,
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It will be a long time from now. lol. My career is my main focus and will be for a very, very, very long time. To be honest I know I am not ready for any of the wife and mom stuff. It's just not for me right now. I don't know when it will be for me. I am in my beautiful twenties! Do you know how great that is? No offense but it is and going to be some of the best years of my life!
Sometimes young Christians are pressured into getting married so they will not make any mistakes. And some just rush into marriage because they don't want to go back on their vow to God. If that is your story and you are happy and fully committed to your marriage more power to you, but to those that feel like it's way to soon or you're just not ready yet. Don't do it. (IF YOU'RE READING THIS RIGHT BEFORE YOU WALK DOWN THE AISLE AND YOU HAVE BEEN SUPER SURE 'PRAYED UP' AND READY UNTIL RIGHT. NOW STOP READING THIS AND GO GET MARRIED. LOL). #JittersRreal I thank God for my mom, I've never had that kind of pressure. She always tells me go for what I want, but if I gave her the choice my life would be the Bachelorette! No lie. She is dedicated to what I am dedicated to at all times. And that is something to be grateful for. I don't know what is going to happen when I hit my 30's though she may throw dedication out the window! |